How we talk about people who hurt us says a lot about whether or not we have a relationship with the One who made us.
I met a Christian man recently who has been divorced for four years and talks in a resentful and bitter way about his ex-wife. According with him, she had no right before God to divorce him.
It was hard to listen to him. His voice, no matter what I talked about, was full of judgment and condemnation.
What he is missing in his life is not his ex-wife, but the joy of forgiveness. This is a gift that we receive from God when we allow him to make his home in us.
He attends church every Sunday and tried to discredit my faith when I said I wasn’t religious.
Yet no regular attendance to a place or membership to a group will give any of us the divine ability to forgive everyone. It comes from God when we are humble and willing to receive it.
Once we have tasted it, we always come back for more.
When this joy overflows in our spirit, our voices become an encouragement for others who can’t forgive and, as a result, can’t find peace in their lives.
If you are struggling with bitterness and resentment, pray for the willingness to be filled with love and forgiveness.
And you will joyfully taste peace that exceeds all understanding.